What can parents do?
Prevention and modeling are key. Be a good role model especially about what you put in your body. Let your teen hear from others whom they admire or respect that the only good experiments are the safe ones. Know the facts as parents.
Sudden change in behavior at home are the first signs there may be a problem. There may also be recurring problems at school which makes it important to collaborate with your teens teacher or school.
Don't panic! During this time your teen will be finding their independence and may make some choices that disappoint you. Remember, although parents play a significant role in prevention, teen alcohol or drug use does not have to define you as a parent or indicate that you have created this problem by your parenting style.
Many of the same signs and symptoms your teen may experience as normal growth and development can mimic signs and symptoms of alcohol and drug use and abuse.
Teens make choices and often parents are left to react after the damage has been done. Remember, it is how we respond to the teen that influences future outcomes of learning.
Talk to your teen about their experiences, expectations and perceptions of alcohol and drug use and addiction - as well as your own. Teach them how to recognize peer pressure and assess risk related decisions by planning ahead.
Gather information, monitor patterns of behavior and consult with your local mental health provider. Teen alcohol and drug use and abuse does occur and does not necessarily indicate a troubled future. Most teens get through this period with just a few minor scrapes.
Timothy Welch MA, PCC, MAC, SAP
740-522-2230
Psychological Consultants and Affiliates, Inc.
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